Today we continued our sermon series listening to the roar of the Lion, which is how God describes himself in the book of Amos. As Nigel preached Amos 5:18-6:14, we learnt not to be complacent about complacency, and considered Israel’s false security from religion and false security from national might.

In our old Homegroup I often used to address my weekly email to “My Homegroup Homies”.*  Someone came up with the name one time when we were together and the name stuck.

Now that our new groups are called Connect Groups, that begs the question, “What should we call each other?”  I’ve tried “Connect Groupers”.  Someone suggested “Connect Crew”.  I might try “Connectors” next time.  It’s a big decision.  I’ll keep you posted.

I recently went through 3 John in my quiet times.  There’s a lot packed into those 15 verses.  But one thing struck me as I came to the end of it.  The final verse.  What they call each other.

“Peace be with you.  The friends greet you.  Greet the friends, every one of them.”
(3 John 15)

I never would have thought to describe my church as “the friends”.  I mean, we are friends!  I love Emmanuel and I love the people who make up Emmanuel.  But to call the church “the friends” like this is very striking.

We often talk about Emmanuel as being like a family but perhaps we can get over familiar (excuse the pun) with the family language and it loses it’s impact.  After all, Great Auntie Maud is family but you’ve only met her once at your second-cousin’s wedding.  But our friends?  They’re the people we see a lot because we enjoy their company.  We share life together and do fun things.  We cry with them and help them when they’re struggling.  And not just cos we have to but because we’re friends.

This week in Connect Groups, we’ve thought about the third aim for the groups: Caring For One Another.  What difference would it make if we took those people in our group out of the category of ‘church people’ in our minds, and firmly put them in the special box marked ‘friends’?  Would we see them more often?  Would we invite them round to watch a film?  Would we see if they needed anything from the shops?  Would we pop round or drop them a text to see if they’re ok?  Would we lean our heads together and inexplicably share two milkshakes between all of us?  (Well, maybe scrap that last one.)

There are ways we need to care for one another which will be distinctively Christian.  We saw that in our Connect Group study in Colossians 3 this week – helping each other be godly, being totally honest, forgiving each other like Christ forgives us, letting the Word dwell among us richly, singing praise together.  But at the same time, those relationships shouldn’t look a million miles away from, oh I don’t know… actual normal human relationships!

So whatever it is that friends do, do it with your Connect Group.  Do it this week.

QUESTION: Who is it you can’t wait to spend time with?  How could you cultivate that in your group?

This is the fifth of a short series of posts about our new Connect Groups.  Keep checking back for more.

We love Bramcote.  We want to serve our local community better and better.  To help us do that, we’re conducting a Community Survey of local residents.

Members of Emmanuel Church will be visiting homes in the area with a short questionnaire to find out what people think about life in Bramcote, the church and Jesus.

It will only take a few minutes to complete the survey, but it will be a big help to us in planning new ventures in the future.  We hope people will find the questions stimulating and are looking forward to chatting with lots of people we don’t yet know.

The survey is especially designed to help us discover how people feel about living in the area, both what they enjoy and what they find difficult.  It also deals with how connected and rooted people already are in the local community and how they feel about community involvement.  Finally, the survey aims to find out people’s attitudes to Christianity.  Our hope is that as a church we can better understand the community we live in and how we can more effectively be of service to people.

Unfortunately we aren’t able to survey all the roads in Bramcote but have chosen a cross-section of streets which cover the area.  If you got a flyer through your door but didn’t get a visit, it may be that we haven’t got to you yet, or that we called while you were out.  Either way, if you would like us to visit you again to do the survey, do get in touch and we can arrange to come at a more convenient time for you.

If you’ve come to this site because of a flyer you were given, thank you very much for taking the time to visit our website.  We hope you’ll find it helpful in finding out more about us and what we do.  If you’d like more information about things we do in the community, visit our ‘loving the community’ page.  ‘About’ and ‘I’m New’ are also good places to start finding out about Emmanuel.

Thank you to everyone who is helping us by taking the survey!

If you have any other questions about the survey or Emmanuel Church, Bramcote, please do contact us.

When Lib first discovered that I could whistle through my eyes (what? you’re only discovering now?) she must have thought I was very strange indeed.  She would be correct.  But after a while she’s accepted it as an odd party trick and no longer bats a non-whistling eyelid.  Something which stood out as different and unique is now just a thing that sometimes happens.

I’ve had a similar experience at Emmanuel.  When we first moved here from London I was struck by the name we give to our prayer meetings.  I was used to them being called Prayer Meetings or, at our previous church, Prayer Gatherings.  But at Emmanuel those meetings are called First Priority Meetings.  Think about that for a moment.  First Priority.  Really?!  But what about…  And yet now in my mind it’s just what those meetings are called.  They’re called First Priority Meetings, I can whistle through my eyes.  So what?

First Priority is actually a very daring name to give something.  It’s hard to miss that meeting because something more important came up.  ”More important than our first priority?”  It raises the issue of the importance of prayer; what we say we believe about prayer and what we actually do believe as evidenced by what we do.

This week in our Connect Groups we’re thinking about the second of our Connect Group aims: Talking To God Together.  This is meant to be mainly about our prayer life as a group, not just as individuals.  Why is it that prayer gets squeezed out?  Squeezed out of our day so that prayer time coincides with bed time.  Squeezed out of our Connect Groups so people need to leave before we’ve started cos it’s been left so late.  It has to be because prayer is not our first priority.  Not really.

One reason it might not be our first priority is because of a lack of faith in God’s ability to hear and answer prayer.  It could be because we don’t believe that we are accepted in Christ and that as our Father He is willing to hear and answer prayer.  But it could also be a theological reason which sounds very holy and good but isn’t; the idea that the other three Connect Group aims are actually more of a priority.

So we’d say that Listening To God Together is more important because we should pray in response to what God says and what He says is more important than what we say.  True, but do you think you can even understand the Bible on the most basic level without God’s help?  We need to pray for the inclination towards, understanding of, delight in and obedience to God’s Word.  Or it won’t happen.

Or we’d say that Caring For One Another is more important because you mustn’t just wish someone well, you have to do them good.  True, but do you think that there are more ‘practical’ things you can do to help somebody than call on the Lord God Almighty to give them a hand?  If we care for people, we will pray for them.  And if we don’t then whatever we try to do to help them won’t bear fruit.

Or we’d say that Reaching The Lost Together is more important because God is the missionary God sending out His people with the good news to speak to people who will go to Hell if nobody tells them about Jesus, whereas my attendance at a prayer meeting isn’t as directly correlated to people’s eternal destiny.  True, but who’s going to give you the boldness to speak and how will your words bring a dead person back to life again unless you have the Lord’s help?  If we want to see people saved, we will pray for them.

God is the power behind anything good that happens in these groups.  Prayer is when we ask Him to act.  It runs through all the rest so, yes, it really is our first priority.  And if we’re still not convinced, let’s let Jesus have the last word on this one:

“Apart from me, you can do nothing.” (John 15:5)

QUESTION: Is prayer my first priority?  How can I encourage this in my new group?

This is the fourth of a short series of posts about our new Connect Groups.  Keep checking back for more.

This week in Connect Groups we’re thinking about Listening To God Together, the first of our Connect Group aims.  It’s a great way to kick off the new groups by laying out from the start how we’ll approach the Bible.  And there’s a lot at stake.

Over at the Proclamation Trust’s blog, there’s a quote from somebody who left evangelical churches like Emmanuel behind to become a Roman Catholic instead.  One of his big problems was how small group Bible studies worked.  He said:

“I’m sure there are a lot of good Bible studies out there, and a lot of well intentioned people, so I don’t want to go overboard.  But it’s not only my opinion [that evangelicalism tends to be self-help rather than Christ-centred].  There have been some recent academic studies by anthropologists who have examined evangelical Bible studies.  They report that people don’t pay too much attention to what the text actually says.  People search around in their heads, their memories, and their feelings for something that seems to connect to the text.  And then, they conclude “Oh yeah, that makes me fee like..” or “What I think is that….” or “In my opinion, what it means is…”  Usually the text is serving as a pretext to affirm something they already believe, rather than as an authoritative text to challenge what they already believe.  There’s no other way to put it.  There’s a lot of sharing of ignorance.”

Isn’t that tragic?  Especially after what we heard on Sunday about the life-and-death importance of listening to God when He speaks.  We’ve all been in those Bible studies where people are staring at the ceiling rather than at their Bibles when questions are asked.  But as Adrian Reynolds at the Proc Trust rightly points out, “the answer to these kind of Bible studies (though they cannot really claim that title) is not to move to Catholicism, but to have better Bible studies.”

QUESTION: What can we do to make sure that our Connect Groups really get to grips with the Bible when we get together?

This is the third of a short series of posts about our new Connect Groups.  Keep checking back for more.

Our current sermon series in Amos.

Listen to the latest Bible talks below taken from our current series called Amos: The Lion Has Roared.

Nigel told us this classic story at last week’s Connect Groups launch night…

“There were four people called Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody.

An important job had to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.  Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.  Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody’s job.  Everybody thought that Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it.  It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.”

We had this up in our kitchen when I was growing up.  I remember scribbling our names on it so my sisters were Everybody and Anybody, and I was Nobody.  ”Hannah could have done it, but Nathan did it, etc..”  Good old me.  But really when something actually needed to be done, it usually was Nobody who did it.

Church can easily become like that.  We think that church is somewhere we attend.  It’s just one of our many weekly interests.  But everything church is about… well, Everybody thinks it’s all Somebody else’s job.

But, as we saw in the Bible at our Connect Groups Launch, and as we’ve tried to spell out in our Connect Group aims, church is one another thing.  Take a look at 1 Peter 4:7-11 and spot the three ‘one anothers’:

The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers.  Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.  Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.  As each has receive a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies – in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.  To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever.  Amen.

Love one another.  Show hospitality to one another.  Serve one another.

And throughout the Bible there are so many other one anothers.  Church is a one another thing.  But it’s so easy to see church and even our Connect Groups as something which somebody else runs for our benefit, rather than a group I’m part of and should be involved in for other people’s benefit.  Love and hospitality and service mustn’t be one way traffic; we should do these things for one another.  Nobody leaving Somebody to do it, but Everybody getting on with the important job that was given to them.  Anybody?

QUESTION: How might you be able to grow in living out church as a one another thing in your new group?

This is the second of a short series of posts about our new Connect Groups.  Keep checking back for more.